There are so many moments from today that I wish I could bottle up and take away with me, to relive over and over again. Having each one of you share in this celebration is one of them – for there are not many people in this world that Jamie and I value more and no greater privilege than having our beautiful friends and family witness the biggest and happiest moment of our lives.
Contrary to what everyone may think, it definitely wasn’t love at first sight between Jamie and I. It was, in fact, quite the opposite. In his words, I – and our first encounter – were nothing to write home about. And what did I think? The word ‘metro’ springs to mind. This guy had better hair than me, for starters, and I was convinced he spent more time in front of the mirror than I did. I had also sworn off Pharmacists, or people with sideburns and piercings, particularly those who drove noisy V8 Soarers that made my parents nervous.
It only took half a year but I eventually saw past Jamie’s looks – and car. And in doing so, I came to realise two things: that his sideburns, facial hair and piercings were here to stay, but, more importantly, that he was the boy I had waited my entire life for.
And for the first time, everything just melted away. And all that remained was this new perspective. Without even asking, I gave him my hand in marriage. And without even thinking, I just knew that this made sense. Because, you know what? I kind of like the idea of being your wife. And to have you, as my husband.
These are moments that mark your life; moments when you realise nothing will ever be the same again. And time is divided into two parts: before this and after this.
Through the darkest time in my life, to where I am standing now, saying these words to you. All these moments teach me the true worthlessness of material things. Assure me that the reward is so much greater than the risk. Inspire me to learn from it, to lose myself in it it, and to not be afraid of it any more. You give me reason as to why I would give up everything in this world to spend the rest of my life with you.
To think that it started as a small seed we planted 600 days ago to what has now blossomed, and will branch into a mighty tree that will weather every storm, tonight, tomorrow, and for all the days of our lives.
For you will be the one I will always come home to, the one I will always fight for.
And marrying you feels like I’ve woken up for the very first time.
- April 17th 2011
I think that’s the best wedding speech i’ve ever heard… You’re a wordsmith to the very core.
Thank you so much for sharing such beauty.
You are far too kind and sweet
Thanks for stopping by – I had no idea I still had visitors! =D xx
I’m so glad you opened up your blog again Michelle!
I had your blog bookmarked and although you didn’t announce anywhere that you re-opened it up I checked and am thrilled to read that you’re in a happier place now.
I have hope that I can also meet my “dreamboat guy” and also feel that same happiness and awakened feeling that you do too, eventually.
Hmm don’t know why it directed to elevatedheartbeats! That was my oldold blog.
What a beautiful speech – it was so honest and genuine.
Oh my, Mish…I am still tingling after getting goosebumps down to my toes, and a pink nose (a very unflattering sign that I’m about to cry). Your speech was so absolutely beautiful (here comes the tingling again), and whenever I read about how you feel about Jamie (and vice-versa), I feel such incredible genuine happiness for you, which feels odd and hard to explain, seeing I have never met you in person
You deserve all the beauty and happiness in this world, and I wish you both all that and more!
xx
CC
You are the most divine writer. I am sitting here in my office at work trying my very hardest not to cry whilst tingles run up my spine.
Thank you so much for sharing. That really is the most beautiful speech.
xxxx
PS. What is that stunning gown you have on? You must have had 10 ‘costume’ changes on the day!!!
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Haha, I wish! :p Clarice, the dress I’m wearing in this photo is my reception dress that was inspired by an amazing Angel Sanchez bridal frock. My mother in-law actually sewed the dress and handstitched the rosettes, so it holds a very special place in my heart. x
Oh wow, your lovely hubby comes complete with lovely MIL?!? How absolutely beautiful and sweet…
xx